This morning my whole country were shocked by the news of the losing a commercial airplane Airasia QZ 8501 which was traveling from Surabaya to Singapore with 155 passengers and 7 flight crews. Many of them are families who are going to have a holiday purpose. Even my friend's cousin's whole family were in the plane, and still no news.
Every of my holiday trip with my family, my mom always asks my sister to arrange different flight, usually mom with dad, and sister with me. She's always scared if something bad happen. This leads to something that always comes to my mind, especially after every plane crash or missing.
Now for family trip, we have 2 schemes to arrange.
Let say we go separately and something bad happens, crash or missing. We could have another 2 options that might happen.
Which one would you prefer ?
The another group is/are people you care most, your father, your mother, sister, brother, grand father, grand mother, children, or wife.
If you choose another group die and you survive (ok, I'm not telling you are a selfish, arrogant, and probably still have undone business in this world :p ), Being left behind by our beloved person is a nice thing. The sorrow, unready to be left behind, or having plan together in the next couple of days or weeks. Those sadness is unbearable. Being regretful for something that has not been done with the person or regret for doing something bad to the person, is torturing your whole life.
If you choose you die, I can tell you are selfish either :p why would you let other family member have sadness to lose you ? unless you are sucks, asshole and ungrateful bastard - pray that you are not.
You don't have to answer this now. Just prepare, in case God will ask you this someday.
Apart of this silly question, please join to pray for the safety of all passengers and for the strength and peace to the families if any bad really happens.
Every of my holiday trip with my family, my mom always asks my sister to arrange different flight, usually mom with dad, and sister with me. She's always scared if something bad happen. This leads to something that always comes to my mind, especially after every plane crash or missing.
Now for family trip, we have 2 schemes to arrange.
- going together with whole family in one plane
- going separately
Let say we go separately and something bad happens, crash or missing. We could have another 2 options that might happen.
- another group die
- you and your group die
Which one would you prefer ?
The another group is/are people you care most, your father, your mother, sister, brother, grand father, grand mother, children, or wife.
If you choose another group die and you survive (ok, I'm not telling you are a selfish, arrogant, and probably still have undone business in this world :p ), Being left behind by our beloved person is a nice thing. The sorrow, unready to be left behind, or having plan together in the next couple of days or weeks. Those sadness is unbearable. Being regretful for something that has not been done with the person or regret for doing something bad to the person, is torturing your whole life.
If you choose you die, I can tell you are selfish either :p why would you let other family member have sadness to lose you ? unless you are sucks, asshole and ungrateful bastard - pray that you are not.
You don't have to answer this now. Just prepare, in case God will ask you this someday.
Apart of this silly question, please join to pray for the safety of all passengers and for the strength and peace to the families if any bad really happens.